1. Get into her head.
As Bob Guccione eloquently remarked, "Getting into a woman's head is a prerequisite to getting into her body." Know what makes your woman tick. Look through what she reads in books and magazines, the TV programs and movies that she watches. Get acquainted with the tone and mood of the materials that she regularly immerse herself in and you will then get a good idea on what will make her get hot.
2. Be unpredictable.
The kneel of death of any relationship is to be predictable. Try to inject an element of surprise back into the relationship. Compliment her when she least expects it. Perhaps more importantly, be specific in your compliments rather than generic (ie "I like your new curls - it really suits your face" is always better than "You're hot"). Leave stick-on notes on her windshield to tell her how you appreciate being with her. Use your imagination and do the unexpected.
3. Tease her.
You might have read somewhere that the brain is human's biggest sex organ. Could you tease your way to seduction? The trick to being a good tease is to subtly imply sexual interest in seemingly innocent way in your conversations with her. Be flirty and sweet at the same time, and you will be well on your way to be a great tease master.
4. Subtly imply sexual interest in the conversation.
How to make a woman think of having sex with you? Talk to her! However, the secret is not to directly ask her about sex, but rather indirectly lead her to the subject. For example, tell her that you've read an interesting article on sex in one of the magazines that you both read. It could be a tip on a new position that gives more pleasure to the woman, for example. Gradually make the conversation steamier and you'll well be on your way to bed her.
5. Go to a 'girl-friendly' sex shop.
Ask her to go for an adventure to shop for lingerie. Remember to go for the non-sleazy, women-friendly sex shop that sells both lingerie as well as sex toys. Talk her into buying a sex toy together.
Now here's a bonus sixth way to get a woman hot and bothered. Ask her to spend the night in with you and watch a sensual movie with you. Some movies you'd like to consider - 9 1/2 Weeks (steamy drama starring Mickey Rourke and Kim Basinger), Belle du Jour (sensual French film), B Monkey (romantic thriller). While watching the movie, tease her gently but turn it up gradually. She will practically drag you off to the bedroom. So get ready.
Thursday, August 23, 2007
Sexual Desire
Do You Lack The Sexual Desire?
Sexual health is a vital aspect in life as far as we are concerned and sexual satisfaction, an essential ingredient when it comes to active, physical relationships. We express sexual desires in many ways. And we do not know whether it is our own sexual fantasies or physiological reasons that bring out sexual desires in us.
Inhibited sexual desire
A low level of sexual desire and interest manifested by a failure to initiate or be responsive to a partner’s initiation of sexual activity is termed as Inhibited sexual desire. Though most of the aspects which stall sexual desire are personal or relational in nature, there are some physical problems too which affect a person’s sexual desire.
Women lack the libido
Lack of sexual desire occurs in approximately 20% of the population and is more common in women than men. Women find themselves guilty of engaging in sex some times or the lack of proper communication makes them stay away from sexual desires. For the woman, sexual desire, love making and satisfaction are feelings closely related to the mind. Good relationships, effective communication and partner’s comfort level determines her urge to involve in sexual activities. For men, it’s the penis which tells him that he is sexually stimulated but for women the message comes from the brain.
No sexual desire? Learn what causes it.
• Communication problems between the partners
• Both men and women fear intimacy. Men especially think that intimacy in a relationship makes them weak
• Anxiety can creep into any relationship. If you have never had sex or had bad experiences from it, then fears and anxieties can ruin sexual interests
• Fear of STD’S or pregnancy might worry you
• Lack of privacy in joint families
• A very restrictive upbringing in matters relating to sex
• Traumatic sexual experiences
• Stress
In marriage, emotional bondage and sexual compatibility are important to make the relationship work. If any one of the partners feels a lack of sexual interest in their relationship, talking helps. Communication is the key to a successful marriage. Like the emotional balance, sexual activity bonds a relationship closer together. So, a lack of sexual desire in you or your partner needs immediate attention.
Sexual health is a vital aspect in life as far as we are concerned and sexual satisfaction, an essential ingredient when it comes to active, physical relationships. We express sexual desires in many ways. And we do not know whether it is our own sexual fantasies or physiological reasons that bring out sexual desires in us.
Inhibited sexual desire
A low level of sexual desire and interest manifested by a failure to initiate or be responsive to a partner’s initiation of sexual activity is termed as Inhibited sexual desire. Though most of the aspects which stall sexual desire are personal or relational in nature, there are some physical problems too which affect a person’s sexual desire.
Women lack the libido
Lack of sexual desire occurs in approximately 20% of the population and is more common in women than men. Women find themselves guilty of engaging in sex some times or the lack of proper communication makes them stay away from sexual desires. For the woman, sexual desire, love making and satisfaction are feelings closely related to the mind. Good relationships, effective communication and partner’s comfort level determines her urge to involve in sexual activities. For men, it’s the penis which tells him that he is sexually stimulated but for women the message comes from the brain.
No sexual desire? Learn what causes it.
• Communication problems between the partners
• Both men and women fear intimacy. Men especially think that intimacy in a relationship makes them weak
• Anxiety can creep into any relationship. If you have never had sex or had bad experiences from it, then fears and anxieties can ruin sexual interests
• Fear of STD’S or pregnancy might worry you
• Lack of privacy in joint families
• A very restrictive upbringing in matters relating to sex
• Traumatic sexual experiences
• Stress
In marriage, emotional bondage and sexual compatibility are important to make the relationship work. If any one of the partners feels a lack of sexual interest in their relationship, talking helps. Communication is the key to a successful marriage. Like the emotional balance, sexual activity bonds a relationship closer together. So, a lack of sexual desire in you or your partner needs immediate attention.
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